Thursday, September 11, 2008

Managing Self Esteem

By Beverley Jackson


Exactly what is self esteem? Generally, the value and respect any individual has towards oneself is the standard description of self esteem. Also playing a part in it, however, is having self respect and a confidence in ones image. A lot of value should be placed on self esteem because it almost always guides how we interact with other people and how we treat them. People with low self esteem usually have no confidence in anything they do and have almost no reliance in themselves.

In order for people to evaluate their own knowledge of self esteem, they need to have a clear understanding of what it is so they can recognize their own level of self esteem. Some people may be encouraged to work on improving their self esteem simply buy becoming more knowledgeable on what it is.

Self esteem helps us keep going and helps us to cope with the daily challenges we are forced to deal with. One's self confidence moulds who we are, how we deal with obstacles and how we handle decision making. In our journey through life, this can be our biggest asset

When we have good self esteem we are more decisive and convey confidence. This gives us the power to deal with others, and to help us take on new experiences and the risks that may come with them. Self esteem can be simply put as how we push ourselves forward in life. A high level of self esteem can be misconstrued by others as arrogance and over confidence.

Self esteem can be a factor in how we treat other people, and also in how we feel about ourselves. It can be the key factor as to whether we are a success or a failure in life. Self esteem plays a crucial part in our lives because it is our weapon against life's difficulties and challenges.

What are the Factors of Self Esteem?

The support and assurance of persons dear to us, and their confidence in us, are very relevant in our nurturing of self esteem. When we were still young, the support and assurance of our family and those who are dear to us would build up our self confidence as we grow old. Adults with low self esteem may find that they can benefit by lending and ear or a shoulder to cry on to other family members, helping others with their troubles and encouraging them to share their emotions.

Children and adolescents may experience a difficult time knowing and understanding exactly what self esteem is but, nonetheless they can actually feel it. Adults who do understand what self esteem is all about but have low levels of it may also find it difficult to get to grips with. People who have low self esteem should always be encouraged and guided in order to build on their self esteem levels and become more confident in life with everything they do.

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